Parenting in the USA

Almost three years into it, parenting has its goods and bads like everything else. What I like about parenting in the USA: 1. Second hand shops with high quality clothes and toys 2. Amazon Prime or Amazon Mom, love the free second day shipping and Instant Videos! 3. Family friendly restaurants, shops and availability of public restrooms. The last bit was a huge problem when we were in Berlin last summer. Emil was 1 month short of 2 years old and already potty trained. We needed to go to the bathroom every 2 hours and he had many accidents because we couldn't get to a toilet fast enough. 4. Very little neighborhood play and replaced by scheduled "play dates". What I dislike about parenting in the USA: 1. High rats of food allergies in children. Not sure why is this happening but I find all the nut-free zones and practices annoying. 2. Late potty training. I don't know how some parents do it, but I sure am glad I'm not changing a poop diaper on a verbal and active 3 year old. The ironic thing is American parents emphasize respecting children's needs to the tee and yet controlling one's bodily functions is apparently not part of the teaching. 3. Playing nice and fair. Not sure if this is the thought in other countries, but here parents focus a lot of avoidance of conflict. If two children fight over toys, it's rare for a parent to wait a few minutes and letting the children work on the conflict themselves before stepping in. Also on playgrounds designed for little kids, you will see parents walking just one step behind their kids to make sure they don't fall. How can the kids learn the physical limits of their bodies if there's always a parent telling them to slow down and stop?!